Recent content by greenhat

Thank you! He said that if I prefaced a conversation with something like "please keep this between us" that he would keep it private. I can understand that and am willing to do it. I did let him know that as a private person, my default is, if I'm telling someone about my feelings I want that...

Backstory: I've been in a polyfi triad with a married couple for two years. We started with no hierarchy but over time have realized that there is a natural primary/secondary structure in place with me as the secondary. I don't like it, but it is what it is. We've talked about opening up so I...