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    Not really new, but need some reassurance

    There is no spare room. There is no spare anything. There are only 2 doors on the interior of his house that can be closed, and this is to the bedroom and bathroom. The rest of the house is two "porches" and a large room that can be said to have "areas"- a living room area, a kitchen area (that...
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    Not really new, but need some reassurance

    I left Goimir and KLP on their own thread. I was just reminded by being here on the forum that there were developments in THIS story. Yes, I have told him all of these things. I have even told him that I feel like the speech I overheard about what he's allowed to have in his kitchen is the...
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    Not really new, but need some reassurance

    So, Sleepsong moves in next weekend. Z is with his dad for several months. There is no solid plan on what she does when he wants me to stay over, except maybe, "she sleeps on the couch." Her only social interaction that I am aware of is a Tuesday night thing (with a social group that...
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    Reasonable Request or Coercion?

    Hi! Goimir's girlfriend here. So, I don't know about his long-term habits as far as cuddling. We're still in the NRE stage. My recent trip up there was actually the real beginning of our "dating" relationship. It had been mostly casual sex before that. The problem that I see Goimir having...
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    Not really new, but need some reassurance

    Honestly, I think he feels bad for her in the current living situation. I don't know exactly what she's telling him, though I know it involves a lot of crying. He sounded doubtful about her moving in when he told me about it, but I think she's going to try to wear him down about it over time...
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    Not really new, but need some reassurance

    I think he has a romantic view of her because he knew her when she was 17, his marriage had just broken up badly (the woman was physically abusing him), and Sleepsong walked in at the right/wrong moment. I used "dating" to indicate that it began as a purely virtual relationship. She had these...
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    Not really new, but need some reassurance

    I really wish you hadn't said that, because this is exactly how I feel about her. I'm trying not to, for his sake, but yeah. As for Sleepsong's marriage, what I hear is that her husband knew from the beginning that she had been poly, and this made him feel less than secure about being able to...
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    Not really new, but need some reassurance

    Hi! For ease of reading, there's me, my boyfriend, Sanguinist, his girlfriend, Sleepsong, and her son, ZZ, who is two. Many years ago, in college, Sanguinist and Sleepsong dated, as part of a poly arrangement. They broke up, and eventually both got married. Her job and her husband's took her to...
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    Hello

    I never realized there was a forum for poly people, or I would have been here long ago. I am a bisexual woman, but I find that sex is all I can manage to do with women; I have never felt the urge to have a full relationship with one. At the moment, I am involved with one man, with whom I am in...
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