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This too we have talked about, so hopefully soon we will be getting him into see a doctor. Its been probably 9years since he had a physical :(

I completely understand and totally agree with this fact

The weight gain started when I got very depressed due to finding out about having polycystic ovierian syndrome. I started getting very lazy on top of eating a lot =60lbs weight gain. I still struggle with it every day. Now its more of just a lasting depression that I can't kick. The weight gain...

I don't really know why he struggles to have an orgasm... At first he blamed it on some weight gain on my part, then he told me this has been happening since right after we got married and I hadn't gained weight then. Now its just REALLY bad and hes saying that he doesn't actually think it has...

hmm for some reason my computer didn't load on the responses on here until after i replied. You all have given me so much great advice and have really helped ease my mind! There is no way for me to thank you as much as I would like to! As for getting pregnant, thats not really a worry with us...

You hit it right on the head... He is upset because he can't "get off" with me hardly anymore and since I can and do that i shouldn't "need" to be with anyone else.. On the positive note he did agree to counseling :-) So hopefully we can work through this, and maybe one day touch back on the...

Yeah you pretty much hit it on the head. Quoting him.. "You still get off, i struggle to get off, I need something else. Not you." But in the positive: I spoke with him last night about going to talk to someone and he agreed that it would be a good idea. So we will be finding a counselor that...

I really appreciate everyone for their great responses and advice. Makes me feel a little less ...crazy? I will definitely talk with him about therapy, I have a bad feeling he will have a negative response to that but I remain with wishful thinking/hopes/prayers and positive energy. All of...

I really thank both of you for your advise! I will be talking with him about seeing a couseler some time soon... I really do thank you!

Thats kind of my thought, I read this book The Ethical Slut... And it opened my eyes a lot to having a poly lifestyle... I also agree that since were not rock solid this could be a huge mistake.. I honestly don't know what else to do... His desire for me has completely gone away and everything...

So.... I really hope I came to the right place for this.. I'm Cristine, I'm 22 and I've been married for 2 years.. Recently my husband asked me for permission to step out of the marriage and basically have a one-night stand. Well over weeks of talking about it we decided that I'm okay with him...