Recent content by Hans

Sexually nesting partners are usually switches, as am I, and the dynamic is quite fluid. I would say in terms of decision-making it's quite mutual, and we hand over power and responsibility quite fluidly, depending on each other's needs and abilities. My current partner and I have latched onto...

Thank you, I hope I can become a part of that friendliness and helpfulness too. I've been reading some of the threads and resources and my impression is that this is a very positive space.

Reading this resonated for me, in terms of my experience on a few levels. Firstly, I was the demisexual partner in the relationship. Our relationship evolved through swinging, once we had both accepted attraction to others was no longer a taboo subject. My partner found my need for intimacy...

Thank you Kevin that is kind of you and I already feel welcome.

Hello, I am new to the forum and thought it would be polite to introduce myself. I'm in a poly-relationship with a partner and we are soon taking the step of becoming nesting partners. It's the first relationship of that nature for me, since my partner died 5 years ago. So I have quite a...