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The fighting over sex is constant. Men can be highly defensive if you dare to discuss the subject that you are not getting what you need. You can say nothing, so as not to upset them. When you feel like you have nothing to lose, you can say what you need to say . No matter how you approach the...

If it helps. Low sex drive in men is very under-reported. Its more common to hear husbands whinge about low sex drive wives. There are some good books available on this very subject . If it's the intimacy with your husband that is missing, maybe that's the area that requires your attention . I...

S.CAT- I'm glad to hear you can laugh at it .

S.CAT....If anyone should be questioned on why they have posted on this site it should be ME ! I think we all have something of value to contribute when it comes to open discussions on relationships and we can all learn from other peoples experiences.I hope that my contributions haven't caused...

S.Cat-Thanks for your "enter" tip. I understood your use of "price of admission ",it's a common term and i was simply using it the way i have seen it used. Sorry for any confusion. Yes, my husband and kids do have annoying habits, but i love them all the same and it's faster to do...

Emm - fair comment ,wasn't considering the effect the hurried writing would have on readers, too busy picking up after family .Had other priorities. S.cat - I wasn't trying to imply that my friends were any better than yours.I'm glad to hear that she's there for you when you need her too . I...

S.cat.....Thank you for your reply . Nice to get the details from your situation. I do understand your husband is not ployamorous, just enjoys the sex and wants to help a friend.I like your bug analogy.If she likes bugs ( at least wont squish them ) i wouldn't encourage that she take him...

To Polyq4....Here is how i see it ...this may take a while . S.cat said that they would like to pursue a sexual, non romantic relationship.She also said that things began before they discussed it with her and that it "got off to a bad start ".She was also says that...

Glad to hear that things are going well.Happy that your husband and best friend are just that.....Life is complicated enough without having more emotional problems to deal with ...good luck to you all...

all for your comments AnnabelMore ...i found this site by accident ..searching..one thing leads to another ,you know how it works. I am totally happy with what choices people make regarding their sex lives ,and i do understand what the polyamory life style means.I just find it odd that someone...

My suggestions.... Although i do not participate in the lifestyle discussed here, i am all for doing what makes you happy.I find it strange to see that this situation,being the issue of whether or not to agree to lend your husband to your best friend, requires so much discussion?I think that...