Recent content by happy4her

Thanks! The are now past the NRE and struggling with the distance and how to define their relationship. My wife has a really hard time figuring it out because there will always be that distance. She has not figured out how to stay close to someone that she can not see and touch often.

Thanks! There is not really any way that her girlfriend could move closer. She would have to change jobs, and even more so, she has kids that are with her every other week and she needs to stay close to where their father lives so that the kids can stay in the same school. We did get together...

Wow, thanks for all the links. I had done some searches and got overwhelmed by all of the discussion of day to day "making it work" type of discussion. We felt that they have that part pretty well covered. My wife and I have had long distance periods in our own relationship so we know that it...

Thanks for the feedback SG. They are both on the same page with what they want, and not sure how it will work out. At the same time, they are both very interested in finding a way to make it work. I work very hard to avoid being pushy, just providing gentle nudges, as you put it. I think...

Making long distance poly relationships work We have a question for everyone on making long distance poly relationships work. It has been a while since I have posted, for a reminder of our situation you can read here: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=7809 Update: My wife and her...

Married for almost 16 years. My wife has been developing a relationship with a woman for a month now. They are just seeing where it goes and how it works out. I am not sure if that counts us as a "Yes" or not though.

I can't say that I do. At least not yet. I am sure there could be things that come up that may provide pangs of jealousy, but I am prepared to deal with them as they come. It helps that I have poly tendencies myself and can completely understand the ability to love more than one person. I quite...

Thanks for the welcome!

Hi all! I have come here for looking guidance and assistance in helping my wife with a new journey she is taking. For several years we have been borderline swingers. We prefer to call ourselves "swayers". Basically, my wife likes women, a lot. This is a desire that I obviously can't help with...