Hello all,
Update: I've broken up with my partner. I recently found out that while she can't afford to do anything with me for 3 months, she could afford an entire birthday cake for the weird metamour. So there's zero chance I'm allowing either of them back into my life. I also have a therapy...
Hello, Kevin
They've been dating for roughly five months now, maybe six. I'm not sure how long NRE lasts, but it could very well be a possibility that the hinge is wearing rose tinted glasses with this meta, so to speak. Thank you greatly for your advice.
Hello, GalaGirl
Honestly you make some pretty valid points and I apologize for not responding to your initial comment. I honestly am taking into consideration dropping the hinge and just being done with the both of them. We're compatible in literally every way except when this one meta comes...
Hello, Magdyln
Thank you for the link, I'll check it out! We've talked about "don't ask, don't tell" but I found out through social media that they went on a date once and it triggered some trauma from past relationships. We've come to an agreement not to talk about my meta and I've blocked...
Hello, Kevin
Unfortunately I don't think my partner (the hinge) realizes how bad their relationship affects me. They care deeply about my mental health; however, their solution to me being stressed out by their relationship with my meta is to up my meds and go to therapy more often. They've...
Hello all, Hellcat here
So, here's a little backstory before I get started. I struggle with an addiction to non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI) and schizoaffective disorder (which is schizophrenia and bipolar mixed together into a ball of absolute rat bastard motherfuckery) amongst other issues. I...