Recent content by HelloSweety

Since I am fluid bonded with both of my partners and you wanted to know what makes someone else feel comforetable to be fluid bonded with more than e partner I have no problem explain why I am not worried about it. I am the hinge in a Polyfi Vee. (MFM) And I have no problem with it for several...

Ok so since the title implies asking me what it means to me to be "in the closet" I will say that I am 98% in the closet in that I only have a handful of people in my real life that know about my relationship with my boyfriend (other than my husband and boyfriend obviously). I have a couple of...

This I agree with. You explained things as they are. You reassured them that this doesn't mean divorce, and you left things open for them to ask questions. You also acknowledge that there human and intelligent. And I'm glad it's going well for you :)

I agree with that, but if the kids aren't asking about it and are clearly ok with that then why in the hell sit them down and intentionally screw with there heads? That's what I don't get. And I'm sorry but when you raise your kids (by kids in this instance I mean under 18, though all kids are...

Ok I'm going to say this and it's going to be harsh, but it is my opinion. Why in the fuck are parents telling there kids about there sex lives? I mean if the kids ASK then sure. But honestly if my parents started telling me about there sex life it would traumatize me! And I'm a grown adult...

I am so sorry for all that you have been through. And for what you are going through. While I don't have any personal experience with what your going through. I will give my .02 to try to help. From what you posted you were fine with your hubby having random hookups, as long as he wasn't...

I for one would LOVE a board devoted to raising kids in a poly relationship. While I think at this exact moment we have got it all handled. I doubt that it will always be like that. And the fact of the matter is that children change a relationship simply by there existence. And I have a very...

As much as I hate it. I have to say that kids will always find a reason to bully and single out other kids. It's extremely wrong, but it also seems to be a problem that is timeless. I hope that our home life won't ever cause my daughter to be singled out, but I do know that it is possible. We...

My situation is a little different as we sort of stumbled into Poly as a group lol, and there was no "dating" to find an additional partner. And were Polyfi. So I suppose it's a bit different for my daughter, though she is just a toddler she always has one of us with her. And on the rare...

I agree that how it impacts the kids should be a much broader topic. I for one am always concerned that I am doing what is best for my own child above all else. I do know that so far she has had nothing but positives from my adding my boyfriend to our lives but he was a fixture in her life...

Hmm I hadn't ever thought of this, and I the hinge! Yikes! Well so far it hasn't been an issue. Though now that I have heard it might be I will have to be more...aware of this type of thing. I think it doesn't register with me because only one of my partners is big on cuddles. So it wouldn't...

Well the space situation for us works at the moment, eventually I would like to get a bigger place, but it isn't exactly a sellers market for houses at the moment. But considering there is also a full basement and multiple rooms that aren't bedrooms I'm not too concerned about it. Plus while...

I agree with the having your own space thing lol though with the current set up I just waffle between beds and if I need space I leave the house. I have a feeling it's going to stay that way and I'm ok with that. But there are plenty of other rooms I could occupy etc.

Thank you bluebird that sight is proving to be quite helpful!!!

Well we are taking the big leap! Boyfriend decided that he wants to move in, and Hubby and I are both over the moon about it :D there will need to be some rules I'm sure, but I'm not realy sure what yet. I think the hardest thing might end up being the refrigerator lol! But that happens. And I...