Recent content by Heloise17

Kudos indeed! Bravo to you for reaching deep so soon and finding happiness for your partner when she is with her other partner. It comes much easier when all parties are honest and open with their needs. If your needs are being met, then it's even easier! It also helps if you are good at...

I'd say no... We discuss this every few months. Our children are older, 4 of our 5 combined children are between 18-22, but we still don't feel like burdening them with this "secret". I moved in about 18 months ago, but there were compelling reasons for the move and all three of us are the...

Hi all, I'll keep this short. I'm a bi female in a closed poly fi-tri. I'm the "third", or if you must, the "unicorn". I live with my partners (since 2015) and we have young adult children living with us while they finish school, get settled in jobs, etc, but we should be empty nesters in just...