Recent content by Heropsychodream

OP Update! So a few months have passed and I'm ready to report what happened: The board suggested that I put my foot down and let my wife and Ahmed know that their relationship is just a train about to fly off the track into some serious emotional pain because everything was just too...

It's not as if I can go back now... or is it? Kit makes a good point. I looked it up and the punishment for this kind of thing is indeed stoning to death. I don't think my wife knows this. If she cares for him she wouldn't want this... although I can already hear her response that he just...

I feel like you're being attacking. I'm taking this to the PM as per the forum rules.

Oh I'm not hiding anything... We are open with each other and I tell her everything I feel. Anyway, I did some more research (since I can't get this off my mind) and I am ready to own up to the fact that I am jealous. This jealousy is mostly driven by fear (so not envy). That is what this...

Whoops, sorry. Yeah. No penetration until the end of June. No rules were broken on her side, and I actually prefer that it was done in the living room, and not at his place.

UPDATE Things took a turn last night. I started feeling really nervous about this whole thing, but decided it was because I married my wife because she fits with my life goals. He doesn't fit at all and I'd be forced to change if this was long term. My wife and I agreed to talk about this...

I have had 1-long term relationship and 2 shorter ones. Never a bad breakup, just different life paths. She has had 3 long terms and I think 2 shorter ones. Hers tend to end badly, which may explain her insecurity. Me being with other women? She says she is fine with it and often imagines it...

2.5 years, then married. We knew each other in high school for years but never dated. Ahmed doesn't live with us. He moved out a week ago. He's not coming back. I need to convince her to read some of these responses, create an account, and make some posts. It shouldn't be hard because she...

Hi Bunny! I'm new here as well (mfm v too!) but providing you stick around I think you will see, like me, that everyone is accepting, friendly, and wise beyond their years here. We wanna know your story! How long have you identified as poly and when/how did you make the transition...

Racy! I gotta say that was some pretty hot stuff... You are a talented writer and it sounds like you have a good thing going. I showed this to my primary and she (who isn't yet interested in having both of us simultaneously) thought it was pretty stimulating. Aside from the lusty side I...

I think the board needs more info on this guy. This guy is a student here at the school I am a grad student at. He's a freshman. He is a gamer with an extremely good grasp on internet English. (In other words, he knows how to herp a derp). He isn't a very good Muslim at all (his words). He...

Update-- Guys and gals, I gotta say this community rocks. :cool: After some time to think, and knowing of your responses she indeed did reach a new understanding. She now accepts pornography, masturbation, or outside flirting on my part, as long as it is not hidden. I still don't really want...

Thanks for taking time out of your day to help a stranger! Posts can have an impact on lives. :D

I come to polyamory.com and seek advice for my current situation. I am a man who is 24. My wife is 22. We've been married 8 months. We are heterosexual and have no history of cheating. We have been together now for a little under 3.5 years. We are not religious. As a liberal anthropology...