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    What are the signs that poly is NOT for you?

    oh ok I grasp your point entirely now. And I understand the forum got deluded as it progresses; yes WE would date, seriously and in long term, another woman.
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    What are the signs that poly is NOT for you?

    I'm not dating someone my partner wont date, EVER. Its not about ME and only ME bringing a "third one." For me is ALWAYS about US, not me or her. It would be "our third"; I would hypothesize that in my particular case the OPP is consensual, in the case something happened. And from my part, I...
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    What are the signs that poly is NOT for you?

    Im totally with you, I always felt my hipocrasy on this matter. The thing is that she barely looks to other dudes, the only time it happened was when a dude with my height and insane biceps was on the bus and I just accepted I was being mogged af, even I look at the dude from a place of complete...
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    What are the signs that poly is NOT for you?

    But what if I would feel comfortable if she only dated women to explore her bisexuality?
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    My fiance wants to share me with other man knowing I am not into that, and knowing that I just don't want to be touched by other man

    late to the party, but get the fuck out of there now. Your bf doesnt respect your terms and limits at all.
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    New, want to learn more

    The only thing needed know is grabbing my balls. I thought of sharing all my post here because my thoughts are solidified, and less abstract than my thoughts.
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    New, want to learn more

    New update here, didnt tell her; but as we spent another great weekend another incentive to speak came up. Here is the context: we saw "The Last Five Years," a musical about the story of a marriage till their break up. We cried a lot and I'm glad we did. As we were leaving, we were ranting...
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    What are the signs that poly is NOT for you?

    so could poly be a feeling to?
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    What are the signs that poly is NOT for you?

    forget abot hijacking bro, we are kinda on the same boat. Feel free to engage in the post. And yes, if easier to know what we are not to define what we are. I thought of being poly not because monogamy isnt enough but because my partner is bi but we are DEFINETELY people who just "hang out" or...
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    What are the signs that poly is NOT for you?

    Not having a smartphone in 2026 is absolutely based.
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    New, want to learn more

    Im aware of the "briefness" that I would find, Is in my expectations because I cant force anyone into long-term. I dont really grasp what you mean with "that". You mean about how I should approach the talk?
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    New, want to learn more

    Well, another update here. We had an amazing weekend, on saturday night we went to a famous mall on my city she never been to and she spotted a girl of her likeness going to the mall games (you know, this games that are on the mall; dumb, but I have no idea how are they call on english) and told...
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    New, want to learn more

    First question: I find it cool. Both in the sexual aspect and the personal aspect; maybe Im just fantasizing about it but I have this sense that it could be a life changing experience for the better later on in our lives (basically when we have some stability). Difficult as well but I kinda want...
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    New, want to learn more

    And update: by talking about non related stuff, she told me that things that make her feel casted aside and replacable hurt her the most due to childhood experiencies and a conversation about this stuff definetely would trigger that and wouldnt help at all even thou she mentioned her bi...
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    Anything to take into consideration before talking about this with my partner?

    Just this really. Im planning to talk about this with my partner sooner than I thought and I would like to ask if I have to take in consideration whatever you guys can tell me. Thank you in advance and have a wonderful day!
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