Recent content by Hihello

Hi GalaGirl! Thanks so much for introducing me to the concept of "self full". I think that will be extremely helpful to me going forward. You are so right about developing my own personal standards. My mind set has definitely changed from this entire experience, I feel like it's been such a...

Hi Marcus, I believe this is true. It's just I feel you can be considerate towards someone...but I have a problem with often being too considerate and constantly thinking about the feelings of others before my own. I agree, I could never do that to him. I love him too much and I know how much...

Yeah, we talked...turns out he ended up being sexual with the couple after I had asked him not to yet. So yeah. I'm in shock right now so I'm not sure how I feel yet. I'm going to be pretty broken over it for awhile though. I told him I didn't know how long it would take me to trust him again...

Hey, yes, I thought I was okay one day but then the next day I got an overwhelming flood of emotions and I don't think I'm ready to go forward yet. He is moving fast and I told him this. I really don't think he wants to stop seeing then. This is where I'm struggling now. I am planning to go talk...

No, thankfully there no shadows from the previous attempt, we talked through what happened and then we started fresh. I saved what you said about it being ok to change my mind whatever the reason. It ties into why I've been afraid to be honest about certain things...I just have trouble sometimes...

Hi, yes it truly has been A HELL OF A LOT to take on lol thanks for advice though. I have been talking to my boyfriend all day and we're really communicating well about everything and how I feel. But you're right about all the feelings in the beginning, but it is just the beginning. It's scary...

Thank you so much for your advice. You are totally right about the whole honeymoon phase aspect. We have dated before but recently got back together after being broken up for a year. This is both of ours first poly relationship, yes. I really like what you said about dealing with stuff at home...

Hi everyone. So my boyfriend and I agreed that we we're both poly when we first decided to start dating. Honestly, I thought it would be just us for awhile, like a year or more at least. But we've been dating since January and he's already been pursued by a gay couple. He told me all this...