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    What is reasonable?

    Hello all, Thought I would update. I explained my expectations of the barrier method in no uncertain terms to Apple. It was an emotional conversation, but it was done, he gets it. In fairness to him, he was suitably ashamed and has admitted he was immensely stupid for not thinking of and...
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    What is reasonable?

    Nycindie, I have edited. Also, yes, they have. He trusts her implicitly to be 'clean', but it is beginning to bug me bigtime, to the point we have not really had intercourse much recently. Jane, in my case the hospital trip is usually very chaotic. If we were sat twiddling thumbs so to speak...
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    What is reasonable?

    Hello all, I am still relatively new here and more of a lurker than contributor, so I shall try and put this as simply as poss! I am a Mono. My partner, Apple, has one other partner, Orange. Myself and Apple live together and are expecting a baby. We live a long distance from Orange. Orange...
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    My partner missing the other woman

    I understand where you are coming from. Poly is also a (relatively) new thing for me. My partner is poly, I am mono. We live together and are expecting a baby. He moved a very long way to live with me and his other partner lived relatively close to where he used to live and therefore...
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    STI Issues...

    Hi, I'm very new to poly and am mono in my own 'interests' but found myself in a slightly similar situation last year. I was in a mono relationship before I met my bf who is poly. We split quite quickly, however not long after I developed what I thought was a UTI. Several tests later, turns out...
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    Communication

    Thank you to all that have replied. The pregnancy was a shock, it was not intended as a means of doing anything. I have already got one child whose father sees him on weekends, this was not how I intended to have a second. I think Galagirl probably hit it on the head. I've been wondering...
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    Communication

    Hi, First post! I'm not quite sure how to explain this so please bear with me. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year. He is polyamorous, I am not and he has another girlfriend. This is difficult for me for a number of reasons. We are a very intense as relationships...
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