It is a matter of finding balance. We share plans and such, but not anything that is very personal or intimate. It took us a while to get to a level of comfort with that.
Similar with when to text/not to text. Respect is the key there.
I think everyone has to find the balance in their...
it was a holiday struggle within our poly-quad too. Gift giving in a long-established relationship vs the gifts (and effort) made in the new relationships caused some tension and hurt feelings. Is one of those times that up-front communication about expectations around Vday gifts would have...
Our timing and experience is similar to yours. From swing to poly and unexpected for sure! Through lots of communication and staying the course, it continues to grow and blossom!