Recent content by hunnybunny

This post was super helpful. It really talked me off a ledge from sending and unhinged text. You are right, he is not ghosting me, I needed that reminder. He is potentially doing all of this so we can be together, he kepy saying before this time of NC that he has to do this in an ethical way, in...

But is it wild for me to think that if he really loved me, and I sent a text about how deeply I am hurting and need just a bit of reassurance, that he would say something sweet to make me feel better? I feel like I’m actually being ghosted.

Well, I have been receiving radio silence since last Thursday, even when I sent a message that I am hurting and having a hard time. Think that answers my question.

All this advice has been super eye-opening and helpful. Basically, I am heartbroken and wondering if I am just prolonging more heartache by staying in this while he figures out his shit. Everything felt so real when this relationship started. I trusted his words and his actions, which has led me...

This is definitely something I have thought about. However, he has been totally honest otherwise. My therapist said "Did he lie to you, or is the outcome just not what you imagined?" Obviously, entering a relationship with a married man has its risks. I knew that if we wanted to be together...

Also! We live in NC, and couples have to be seperated for ONE WHOLE YEAR before they can actually get divorced. So no matter what the situation, this is the long game for me. Being 36, I ask myself is this worth waiting for. I am giving him two months to get clear on what he wants, and then from...

@dingedheart I appreciate all your thoughtfulness. This is a situation I have never been in before. I am just trying to navigate with love and compassion for myself and the couple I seem to be coming in between. They have been open for 5 years. She has had many short flings and physical...

These are all thoughts I have had, as well. I have told him that he needs to leave her for himself, not because he met someone he is more compatible with. He has stated he is unhappy and is looking to be in a relationship with mutual understanding and love, which he feels with me. I cannot be...

Hello, I need some serious advice. I am not polyamorous, but I do find myself surrounded by many folks in this realm. I am open to the idea of a poly lifestyle, but have never fully experienced this type of relationship dynamic. Two months ago, a man approached me at a bar, said he has...