Recent content by HunterByrd

Discomfort seeing me fellating one of my guys My husband is the one who suggested I have oral sex with other guys, but he's always left the house to leave me alone with them, I think for their comfort and mine. But we decided to make a video, and self-videos of sex are always bad, so he had to...

Making the best of it I'm lucky. I'm a slave, so my owner makes decisions for me. Sadly I too have given up anal, vaginal as well. It's impossible to orgasm without my lower torso moving, which is so painful I can't come. The nice thing about being owned is being totally taken care of. So...

Staying open to adventure Hi, D, OK Cupid has a pretty good reputation. I haven't been there (my master researches and chooses my lovers and what we can and cannot do). But let me throw in one more thought about your not wanting to go down on a woman. You know, you don't have to do...

Approaching a couple Hmm. Not bi is a bit different. Gay men would be unlikely to have a poly relationship with a woman. Between us, I didn't think I was bi either until I had a poly experience. My private opinion is that we are all bi...it simply is flesh. But you may not know that...

How to make it happen You have to take chances, but not risks. First, I agree about the photo. That and your sweet first post might be the first step. But assuming not, go places where there are couples, and have already written a slip of paper with your name and email, and something sweet...

Tell me how to send you a copy of my futurist poly book, The Road To Welkin, which is set in the Pacific Northwest. Or is that impossible without giving it to everyone? Tell you what, email me at www.worldofhunterbyrd.com.

I was introduced to poly by my master (yes, I'm a slave, but that's not the point here). He chooses those I'm poly with, but always with his direction and consent. I'm bothered, however, by guys who "get some on the side," and call themselves "polyamorous". If their primary is not in on this...

FetLife and polyamorory I've general found people on Fetlife to be very kind and generous. Yes, there are some very hot photos, and some that kind of horrify me, but I like the openness. I personally would never respond to a friendship request with someone without a photograph of themselves...

New to poly I too am confused as to whether this is polyamory on your part. It is certainly to your boyfriend, but you and his girlfriend are not acquainted, I wonder if it is only he that is poly. In my case, my husband and my two lovers know the situation, but we've never had anything but...

This is not supposed to be a downer. I don't know how long I have to live, but I have a tumor in my trachea and pleura (the fluid that surrounds the lung). It's not treatable with radiation or surgery, so I'm doing chemo. Everyone knows how awful the side effects are, so I'm not saying any...