Recent content by IAmAnonymous

Oh, where do I start with this? I guess bit by bit. One thing I forgot to mention, which plays into some of this: She had a crush on him before I ever met her. They met through work, and they started texting, and I told him she was interested but he didn't think so. She mentioned she was...

I am bi. I have acknowledged this and been open with it since years before I ever met him. However, I have always been mono, and never considered an alternative option to that before about 3-4 months ago. I have not figured out yet if I want to pursue poly on my own or if i just want to be...

I think I am worthy of that, but every time I say something that does not fit with how they (mostly he) feels they should be going and at what pace, he says I am being selfish, and that my emotions are not the only ones that matter. i try telling him i understand they are not the ONLY ones that...

The condoms were more to prevent pregnancy. I do not use condoms with my husband because i am unable to get pregnant (none of us want kids, although she is only 22 so no idea if her feelings will change in this). Husband also has been told he cant have kids, but he has also been receiving...

I do have an appointment this afternoon with a therapist with experience in poly relationships.

My husband expressed to me several months back that he wanted to explore the idea of opening our marriage to polyamory. After much discussion, and much research (on my part) we decided to give it a try. I am a highly emotional and often irrationally emotional person. And I told him that I may...