Recent content by iamlissa

Jimmyfun, I own my mistake and will face its consequence. What bothers me is the notion that a "deep thinking man" sees the world in absolutes. No colours in between, either one is black or white only. Your comparison of humans to plants is an example. Each woman is completely different...

Thank you JaneQSmythe, Eponine, Nadya, LoveBunny, and Jimmyfun for your additional inputs. Nadya and LoveBunny, you are absolutely correct. Obscuring my face pics should have been the first thing I did (Canadian cities, except for Toronto and Vancouver, have very thin population compared to...

Thank you for your suggested approaches and scripts nycindie, Bluebird, and GalaGirl. There are no more excuses but at least you're helping me to come out clean. I really have no practical experience in this situation. I have always been a lurker to your forum but I never imagined of actually...

Thanks for your thoughts sparklepop, LoveBunny, Dagferi, Bluebird, GalaGirl, nycindie, and MightyMax. It appears that the consensus here is to tell him up-front. The more I feel horrible about myself. But I promise to do something about it. If it was sooner, I would be easier. Honestly...

Happy Thanksgiving day to all! Here's my story: I'm 32f, happily married for 8 yrs to a man I truly love (37m). My libido or sexual need is far greater than my dh and in recent years, his' was progressively slowing down. Probably work related. We are very transparent to each other so around 7...