Recent content by idego

Just a quick update if anyone's interested. I worked up the courage the other night to tell him exactly how I felt. He was a bit overwhelmed, as it kind of came out of the blue. But I explained how much I wanted to be with him, and he was surprisingly OK with it. We're going to be monogamous...

Thank you, River and Mono. I'll make sure to communicate just how much I don't want to lose him over this. I am definitely more than willing to be monogamous for a year or so, and see how things are then, if he would feel OK with that. On a side note, I'm so grateful to this forum. Without it...

Thank you both for your replies. I think you are right; I really ought to tell him. I think it's all the more daunting in that by telling him, I am finally going to be admitting to myself that I am definitely poly. No more kidding myself that I could do monogamy and live the happily-ever-after...

Hey folks! I'm so glad I found this forum when I did. I could do with some advice from you lovely people. I've just started a new monogamous relationship with a wonderful guy. However, I consider myself polyamorous. I'm 20. Previously, I've had two 18-month relationships. In both cases, I...