Recent content by Ignorant

Yes. When I was willing and he, al the while saying fair would only be fair while taking a pass on any option for a guy in the mix, I never got to the point of imagining what aspects of sex between men I was or wasn't comfortable with. He seemed all feet dragging so I shelved it. No point in...

Back in the first year my partenr and I were together and group sex didn't have a pile of bad experiences on my mind, I remember him saying something about there being no such thing as receiving a gay BJ. I asked him about his stance on that. Would he be interested in a guy joining us? He said...

There it is again. I'm only going to put this to you one more time. A person who has no interest in and would rather not be hanging out on top of a skyscraper is not the definition of someone with acrophobia. A phobia is an irrational fear of something. Not simply a lack of interest or lack of...

Yes a bit due to him repressing it for so long. That he hasn't been up front with me about his interests for many years makes it hard to know if he is or isn't still doing that to some extent. I only asked GSpirit why my partner wants me to participate if I'm the sole source of his anxiety...

Because it has always ended in a crash and burn situation. Not just with them feeling hurt and expressing it but also in acting out angrily or petty. If not for their reaction it might feel less unfair. Clearly I, we for the most part upset them. It was to colorfully infer that he is feeling...

Did you notice the username? Why are you saying I'm the reason the reason he has been repressing this for 15 years? I have only known him for 8. If he is only awkward about this around me, why does he want me to participate? I don't feel I've earned the bigot tag you need me to wear for...

I think what you're not seeing is that I've worn that Bi tag very lightly if at all; women entering OUR bed were being emotionally held at arms length and were not invited simply so I could get my woman fix and still retain my bi status. I don't care what tag someone gives me for what act. It...

Alright I'll state again. I've seen men being affectionate in front of me without issue. I've seen them kiss; it doesn't phase me. I've never thought it had anything to do with me. Its two guys exploring their interest in sex with men and how their bodies feel together. THAT doesn't bother me at...

My partner and I have been together 8 years. He said he had some experiences with men in the past before me but it had been many years. I've had some experiences with women and have had some of these experiences with him involved. Because we indulged in threesomes with women, I asked if he was...

So committed to achieving equanimity turned into "I want what I want, and will do exactly what you feared to get it." All the ethical methods Tom needed to learn to be poly, rather than just a garden-variety cheat, have been scrapped. P.S. We love you, Sarah. You get 5-6 nights a week with...