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I want to thank everyone on here who gave sound advice. You're all amazing people, and you have great lessons to give. Great words to say. And great help to give. Things aren't going to work out with me and my girlfriend. We've come to that point, and its time for change in our lives. I really...

Thank for explaining it from a different perspective. I really can appreciate that. And I'm starting to see her pull similar behaviors. I just found out he asked her to be his girlfriend on Halloween. Weeks after the fact. And I'm pissed she didn't tell me. Not even upset about the fact that...

@ Gala, Thank you for being so honest and real. I really appreciate it. I actually showed her this post the other day and all she had to say was "It made me feel awful" I didn't really have much to say to that, but I'm hoping she learns from seeing everything.

It really is. Am I in the wrong asking for time to acclimate? That's what it's starting to feel like with this whole situation

I'm trying to not look at things negatively, but you are right. It's hard. She wasn't always like that. Things used to be really different. She tries objectifying it by saying she's put everyone else before her for her whole life and she wants to be herself and do what she wants. She's used the...

She's progressing at whatever pace she deems comfortable I feel like. It's seriously been draining on me. Like I keep telling her how much I want this to work, but she refuses to have patience and the words "I'm miserable and you're holding me back" come into play a lot. We're on our SECOND...

To elaborate more (sorry, I'm a little spacey today) she has blamed herself, but when that occurs its quick for her to jump to just leaving. I didn't mean for it to come out to her not having guilt, she does. But from the guilt can occasionally stem anger. And that is when she gets to her...

She hasn't tried, she's being angrily respectful about that. Sometimes it sounds grudgingly. But she wants to act on those feelings. One of the things we've had a problem with is that it was almost synonymous; her coming out to me, and her telling me she liked her friend. And it's moved quick...

Hi there, I'm actually really glad I found this place. I've been with my girlfriend for a little over two years. We'd been having monogamous relationship during this period. During this period, I've also had discussions with my lady about how she's bisexual. I love this about her. And to be...