Recent content by Ihq

The late thing is not a "rule" thing. It was a matter of when he said he would be home. In this case, I don't think what someone say is a rule, it's just what they are going to do. The best way to explain this is if he had just been out with his friends, I would have called and been annoyed. I...

First, I want to thank everybody for their responses. They gave me some perspective and some thinking points, which is what I needed. I am much more at ease with what I need to do and where I need to be headed now! :) Marcus, I do really appreciate the reminder that I can only control myself...

We are very new to the polyamorous world. I have been together with my guy for 8 years, married for 6. In complete honesty, we have dealt with a ton of jealousy and controlling behavior on both our parts in the past, but seemed to get ahead of that in the last couple years. Recently we started...