Recent content by Iloveherandhim

It may very well be.

So the bf and I have had more than a few conversations since our first talk. He apologized for his first reaction and I felt that it was genuine. The problem is since then it has been a constant cycle of "Why do you want to do this?" For which my best answer has been because I want to. I...

This thread gave me life today. Thank you all:)

Update: Well things went well with the wifey. The bf however flipped out. He went into what I've seen people here discuss about "why am I not enough?" and then proceeded to say I won't be happy until I catch some disease.

So I took the advice. I simply said "Hey have you ever thought about dating other people?" And that got the convo going. So far a very positive conversation. Cheers!

So I'm still very new to the poly life. My wife and I both share a boyfriend who is long distance. My wife and I have been together for more than a decade and me and the bf were together for 2 years. The 3 of us have been poly together for about a year now. The bf is long is long distance...

Wife is def the primary. Bf knows this also. He visits a few times a year so far. We've seen him once this year for a week already. And he will be back in July. He wants me to come and see him in June, but I'm feeling conflicted as to how the wife may feel about that.

Thanks for the links and advice. Really good info. Cheers!

I think those are both very good pieces of advice. I definitely don't want to be a hypocrite and try and control what goes on between them. So I won't. I will go with flow.

Is it normal? I was in a relationship with Red, my boyfriend, for almost 3 years before introducing him to my wife, Green. Granted, it was not the best way to start things, but I was struggling with being bisexual, so I was on the DL. Well, since coming out, she has accepted me and him as a...

Hello, Almost 4 years ago I started dating my bf. It was supposed to be a hookup that developed into more. About a year ago I came out to the wife that I was Bi and that I had feelings for someone else. Since then my wife and bf have become great friends, and now have become even better...