Recent content by indicca

hey lady, don't go beating yourself up now. civilians have a different life than do enlisted people. no better or worse, just different. don't let those girls make you feel bad, to hell with them. if your gf and bf care for you, then that is all that matters. everyone else can just go kick...

i will keep you posted on the new interest. hopefully we will get a chance to meet up in about a week :) fingers crossed, she seems pretty rad from what i know already.

yeah, being apart and then living together again can be a huge struggle. experience tells me that. happy to hear that they are doing better :) i'm also happy to hear that things are evening out with bf and gf, excellent news. i'm sure that as time goes on things will get smoother and smoother...

oh! on a happy note, i may have met a new interest! she seems really cool, and beautiful to boot. i think i would like to chat back and forth a bit more before we actually meet. and she lives less than 50 miles away so that is way cool too. don't want to get the cart in front of the horse....but...

i tattooed a huge rose, red orange and yellow, and a large daisy, dark pink and purple, with some leaves and vines thrown in for good measure. it takes up about 25% of my upper arm. so far it is healing really good. i know what you mean about having them planned out, i think i have a whole...

it's excellent to hear that things are going so well! wow, you are a busy lady :) and yeah, balancing is a tough act! best piece of advice i can give is talk! communication is key. the lack there-of cost me someone very special. another subject for another day. things here have been a tad...

Excellent! I'm very happy for you :)

oh, that's lame! sorry, girl. i will continue to keep my fingers crossed for you :) that's cool how you met bf. i keep hoping to bump into a gal and hit it off, gotta get over my "terminal shyness" though. lol, really throws a wrench in the works if ya know what i mean. best of luck, let me know...

Thanks for the clarification, Superjast. I appreciate it a lot. It's nice to meet another real cowgirl. :) Wow, that is a very derogatory and offensive term. I think I prefer "poacher," as well. It is far more fitting than "cowgirl." Whoever came up with that slang term obviously has never met...

I have a few questions that hopefully someone can answer for me. * What is a "cowgirl"? I consider myself a cowgirl because I ride horses and grew up on a ranch. Is this the same thing at all? Should I not refer to myself as a cowgirl? I mean, is it a bad thing? * What does "pansexual" mean...

Cool to meet new peeps! Welcome :)

...oh, i forgot to ask....so how did you meet your bf and gf?

well yay! tomorrow will be great! i will think good thoughts for you :) being in a triad is awesome, so much love and support from all angles. and yeah, all kinds of possibilities will open up. best of luck, lady. let me know how it goes :)

yeah, being on base sucks hard. and you're right, it will be a tad easier when his wife gets back. sometimes it can raise more questions, which can be interesting. are you with both of them, or just him? are you in the service too? forgive me if i am prying, just curious is all.

hi, and welcome :) your situation sounds a tad similar to my own. my husband is a military guy so i completely understand the discretion thing. i am bi (no gf at the moment though) and live in washington as well. good luck with your new gf and bf. drop me a line if you ever want to chit chat :)...