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Update: I've decided that the small additional risk from unprotected oral is acceptable to me, particularly as it seems important for X and she has felt stigmatized against (which I really don't want!). It's impossible to meaningfully eliminate the risk entirely in our setting, so getting too...

Sorry I somehow didn't get a notification for this! Thanks so much for looking it up, that's indeed reassuring. :) If you do have a way of easily finding that reference I'd be curious to read it - I somehow didn't find it myself!

I'm (she/her) in a long-term poly relationship with my partner Y (he/him). Y has a newish partner, X (she/her). Things have been going well and it looks like X could become a long-term partner for him. I'm looking for advice/experiences/viewpoints on how to manage the approach to avoid HSV risk...