Recent content by InLove

I guess I am just worried about bringing him down while right now I feel like shit. He is a comforting person, but there isn't much to say to me right now to make me feel better. I don't feel like a good person to be around while I'm still so hurt and angry. I don't want to be the party pooper...

figured it out. thank you.

I think it's hard for me to see it as cheating because it wasn't physical, but it definitely was emotional so I suppose it is cheating in some form. It's kind of hard to wrap your head around when society has it's own "definitions" of cheating, ya know? Yes, she's aware. We are still friends...

Let me get this straight...your wife stated that she wanted you to stop and you are SERIOUSLY asking if it's okay for you to keep doing it? You need to stop for the time being. If you want to open the marriage back up you need to discuss it with her. As soon as she said "Please stop doing it"...

Here is the short version; My husband was mono when I met him, but open to other ideas. After we married we both decided to go to some swinging parties just to see where our limits were at. I mean if we couldn't handle seeing someone else kiss, flirt, or touch our partner in an intimate way...