I see why you think the guy needs to be dumped...and about the manipulation there.
I don't understand why you think that the girl should be. I see her as the real relationship, and the guy as causing problems because he knows that I won't leave him...so his antics continue, against me and...
Wondering if anyone has faced something similar; if so, let me know how you fixed it / improved things.
Background:
Probably a bad idea, but started dating my gf after her relationship ended (3 yrs or so), dating long distance w/ the promise to correct that problem (she promised to come...