Recent content by Intjleogoat

For one, it's pretty hard to fall in love when you're not dating. I haven't nor has she falling in love with a stranger in over twenty years, so at this point, I'm not concerned. Dating, term used loosely, isn't for another year. That's why I said it's a hard area, because it's not based on a...

I do want to say thank you, all input here I am taking in. I also apologize about the one night stand comment, most people I come across who seem interested in that, only want that. We are on a bathroom break from our conversation at the moment. I truly believe her when she said, she refuse to...

All really good points, that too was something we discussed already. We are both in understanding this isn't a race nor competition (though we are highly competitive with each other). Guidelines we set are only for how we start. Without getting into too much detail, this is not to be a permanent...

Thank you GalaGirl, that is pretty correct. I spent so much time thinking, that it feels like my brain is on fire. I'm now kind of annoyed with myself, I did not think maybe a date would work. That will most likely be my next step, but I wouldn't have time open up for a while. We actually...

I've searched the Internet long and hard for a place where my problem may fit. This is not a poly thing, as much a non-monogamous issue. This is sort of rambling, I know. I'm usually used to figuring out complex situations in my life, but this time I'm at a lose. I'm trying to digest thoughts...