Recent content by j68junebug

That's a great idea to just bring up a recent example, I definitely don't want to throw years of problems at them. That may seem like I've been stewing over this for two years, when I really haven't. I've only recently become discontent with our situation. He mentioned the other day that he...

Yes, I like that. It sounds like a WIN/WIN situation! Thank you!

Kevin, you're right also. I've been afraid. I'm ready for him to prove himself to me now. We'll see what happens😕 Magdlyn, I read the post on couple privilege and so much of it hit home with me. ..that's pretty much the story of my life right now . Thank you everyone for the advice. You all...

Gala girl, he has expressed that he's afraid I'll break up if I get fed up. I get the feeling if I move out it may be over. ..I guess we'll find out. I know they care about me and I care about them. But, I think it's time to take charge of making myself happy. Maybe once I get out I can...

I posted a few weeks ago in the introductions and got some great advice. I'm going for some help straightening out my thoughts and feelings. I'm currently in a FMF Vee relationship. I moved in with my bf and his wife around 2 years ago. They have been married 40 years. The wife and I are...

Galagirl, you are correct. I started out ok with being his secondary. After 2 years together, I think I'd like more. I know the term secondary doesn't describe his feelings for me at all, but it does describe my place in our relationship. I think we've made it to the point that if I brought...

thank you everyone! Thank you everyone for the advice. I will definitely ask him to use the "I" statements. He does basically still ask her permission for he and I too go out, but maybe if I hear it worded differently it won't rub me the wrong way. .. I wish I were considered a co-primary...

I think my overwhelming emotion right now is loneliness. We spend all our time together as a threesome. My bf and i have maybe one day out of every few months to ourselves...and never more than a few hours. He does spend every other night in my room with me, but he comes to bed late, I get up...

I'm currently living with a couple, I guess we're more like a v than a triad. It's been a long two year journey, and my attitude changes almost daily, sometimes minute by minute. We didn't really mean to become poly, but I guess we are now. Some days I'm happy with our situation, but I'm...