Recent content by jackbungee

See ya later OK I think this thread has run its course and I'm signing off. Thanks to everyone who listened to my story I very much appreciate your responses. :) All the best, Jack

Bugger now my first lost post turns up and it looks like I duplicated my reply from memory. It must have sat in a moderator's in tray for a few days. Thanks for the links nycindie they look very interesting from a quick scan. I'll read them after this. Though I'm not sure porn is my main...

Magdlyn you ask the hard questions and it's good. Honesty time. Yes looking inside I think I would enjoy even seek out intimacy. The obsession/infatuation part does not sound like me I don't get like that. Am I contradicting myself? I am desperate to quench the sexual hunger in my life it's...

Magdlyn I replied at length to your last post a few days ago but I don't see anything on the thread. Do you see anything? Do posts sometimes go missing on this site? I sent an email to the moderator but have not had a reply.

Magdlyn you're asking the hard questions. Honesty time I confess I've not thought beyond gratifying my basic lust. The way I saw it and still see it it's about novelty the Coolidge effect as Sex at Dawn calls it. Men and women instinctively seek novel sex partners as a way of diversifying the...

No worries about the thread diversion. You have given me great support I really appreciate it. In Sex at Dawn one chapter starts with something like "You can hide many things behind a fig leaf but a human erection is not one of them" :)

Watching myself Thanks for that thoughtful replies dingedheart and opalescent. I've been away a few days hence the late response. You are right of course there are many things inside that could do with a good hard look and a sympathetic self hug. Your posts made me think again about alienation...

Thanks River and MonoVCPHG. It's not easy. You've given me a bit of hope again. Funny how long one can live on hope like living on love and fresh air. :)

Hi I'm from Auckland New Zealand and I just found your website. I'm happily married for 19 years. A and I have 3 lovely daughters. I love my family and my marriage and I don't want to change any of that. I love A and she loves me. But something has been wrong for many years and I never knew...