Recent content by Jamison0311

Update. He said no.

Thank you all for your input. It has helped a great deal. S and I won't be able to see each other for at least another 12 days or so, but after the holiday, and before we see each other again, she is going to ask her husband. I will post any updates as they come about.

You make very valid points. I think the only thing that freshly kept us apart from fully dating back then was logistics and there was no way I could've supported both of us with my income. Plus she didn't feel safe living in the places I lived, which I didn't blame her cause I didn't feel safe...

And thank you for your input. I really do appreciate it. I don't like the idea of sneaking around, it's just a messed up situation.

Sorry, I missed the other blue part, they had a live in couple that they were poly with, but they moved out and decided to start their own family. And then she got into a relationship with someone and it fizzled out when he kept trying to get her to leave her husband. That's when it became closed.

GalaGirl, from she's been with the same guy since 2009. Our cheating then was nothing more then kissing. Same with this past week.

I'm extremely very new to the lifestyle and know almost practically nothing so far. But here's my story and any feedback would be greatly appreciated. I met S almost 10 years ago on her 21st birthday and things between us just magically clicked. We lived an hour a part so we never saw each...