Recent content by Jaynine

ive talked on here before but not for months. in my triad relstionship, ffm, i am the new comer, weve developed our relationship over the past nearly 2 years and its amazing alot of the time. weve all 3 dealt with some big issues, they just kept coming and the relationship kept evolving and...

for those of you who have followed any of my threads or posts you will know ive been struggling with different parts of my relationship, being in a triad with a married couple. ive choosen, finally, to have some time out in a nearby town in a house of some people i know who are away overseas...

thankyou anna ☺

just to add, for anyone who hasnt read my other posts, our relationship is supposed to be a triad, with me not as a secondary, im happy with this arrangement but at times feel like a secondary and feel lonely. bf tries really hard to support, love and care for me as an equal, and he makes me...

i love reading your posts. i can relate to your thoughts alot. things are going well in some ways better some not as good. i can see how much my bf loves me and wants to keep me in his life forever. i always said to myself and them if i thought our relationship was putting a strain on their...

go Anna!! xx

i agree, i sometimes think that this is not sustainable. and that i deserve to be in a relationship that isnt hidden.

they are lovely words. i do spend alot of time with their 4 boys and i am really close to the 2 youngest, they are all relaxed around me and used to seeing massages etc. my younger son lives with me every 2nd week and i have to be alot more careful when he around and my partners cant come into...

thankyou and yes i would like ideas on how to deal with the lonely feelings etc, my partners are very supportive and i do try hard normally to focus on the positive. but sometimes when my defences are low i.e overtired from nightshift i start to spiral downhill. at those low points i almost feel...

i live in their house as their best "friend" which is great but hardly anyone knows about the real us, in our small city it would be really shunned. and we dont want the kids to get bullied etc. its a hard one thats for sure.

has anyone got any suggestions on how i cope with the lonely feelings i get from being part of a 3 way relationship where i have to mainly remain a secret in public and in front of the kids, in fact alot of the time. i tell myself it doesnt matter, that what i get out of this relationship is way...

Awesome stuff. I will get on to this ASAP. I'll let you know how it goes. Thanks so much.

Exactly! We live in a small city, in a small country, with very small-minded people around us. Although my 2 older children, aged 16 and 18, know (because my daughter read my FB messages!), we all realise that if our extended family found out about why I am here, other than as a good friend...

I can see how it could seem this way. But living in the situation, listening to their arguments, seeing the aftermaths of the arguments, seeing the strain and stress on his face and in his behaviour, and making the decision with him that I need to move out and on for my own peace of mind, sanity...

Maybe I am a fool.