Recent content by jbonjovi

Hi, I'm married with three kids. My wife and I have just started being poly. She's doing great at it. Going on dates, and has a boyfriend. I on the other hand am really struggling with my crushes. I'm nervous to ask new people to hang out and simultaneously explain my whole situation. I worry...

I guess I am just trying to avoid pronouns cause it's a practice I am working on, and I guess I was also trying to avoid any gender bias in the discussion. I might let up if the thread continues and if it seems more helpful. Sorry if it was confusing.

To be clear we are married, and have both cheated. I wanted to have a poly relationship and things have been messy. This would be there first relationship outside of our marriage. It's happening so fast, I don't feel ready for it, but I feel some guilt for my infidelity and things have been...

My partner and I have been discussing being non-monogamous after a few rough months and some issues of infidelity. I was excited when they decided to try poly with me, but there first choice for a secondary relationship was with another married person, and there is no consent from that persons...