Recent content by JCN

Banana knew way before I did. Apple finally told me but only because banana threatened to tell me. We all 4 went to a therapist. Sometimes together, sometimes with our spouse. And yes to all of what you’d said. Nicely put together by the way. That’s my last 10 years in a nutshell. How do I “give...

Thank you. Again I truly thank you for messaging with me. I’m going to sit on things for a couple of days and see. I may reach out again. I can’t believe I didn’t know this forum existed. Just googling, looking for answers/ help. And here you are.

So we actually began this relationship through first friendship. We knew eachother. Then started spending more time together. And one drunken night later…I’d never heard of this lifestyle before. But after lots of research it seemed to fit us then. I did find out about 6 months into the...

Well this quad is between married couples: one for 28 and other for 38. So if this doesn’t work both couples wouldn’t enter again into a polyamorous relationship. It’s myself and the other husband. I love them both very much. Definitely great friends. But as time goes on, it’s gotten harder for...

10 yr quad relationship. 2 of the group continue to have a difficult time connecting. The other 2 don’t. It seems to have gotten worse. How to help?