Recent content by Jcon

I'll be brief. I'm currently in a mono relationship and I'm trying to broach the topic of poly with her. I'm not trying to convert her or anything, but just give her some sense of understanding. I'm being met with a fair amount of (what I view as) ignorance. Now, I'm usually good at debating...

Well I find it interesting that you consider her a perfect match and you want her to yourself to build some kind of life with yet the two of you conflict on a pretty serious issue - She clearly seems to want kids. You don't. That said, like the above person - Why do your deep feelings translate...

First of all I'm incredibly happy that you and your friend both have feelings for each other. I know what it's like to have desires like that and being unable to express them for a long time, so it's awesome that the both of you get to explore that part of your relationship. My advice? Talk...

Isn't that a matter of opinion? I mean I feel it's less humanizing when I'm referred to as my girlfriend's boyfriend in the context of conversation. Titles are titles. You either use the person's name or their relative title. Boyfriend, girlfriend, brother, sister, mother, lover, primary...

Within the next month we had an interesting night where she made out with one of her girl friends... this resulted in my arguing my case that I should be able to kiss my friends as well - since the majority of them are girls. So basically our stance shifted to "anything but sex" with the...

Switching gears for a second... Another thing that I thought was my issue for the longest time, before I reached the conclusion that it may just be monogamy in general that was my problem - I've ALWAYS been a relationship person. I can't just 'date' someone... it's actually HARD for me to not...

In Word - this post is 5 pages long. So feel free to ignore it, since it's just a long background; more or less a journey of discovery - and even at this length, I feel it's just the cliff notes. I've always felt something off about myself when it comes to romantic relationships. I had my first...

Maybe an extreme suggestion, but technically you could divorce and have one of you marry the woman.