Recent content by jdicky700

Good day to all!!!! Thank you for all the advice and well thought out responses. @kdt26417 That is what I've decided to do. Stella and I had a long talk last night and I have "let go" of this situation in regards to her relationship with Navy. I agree one hundred percent. Nothing would...

@GirlFromTexlahoma It's hard not to want to protect her. It's my girl (please don't read that as a sign of ownership...I don't mean it that way)! I've been with her 16 years, married almost 15. It causes me pain when she is in pain. It's so hard. I have sacrificed so much for Stella, it's...

Well.... there are lots of things going on. Biggest one I posted about in another thread so I won't rehash it here. We did go on our "date" the other night and it was very lack luster. It felt awkward. Stella was excited but Navy didn't seem to be into it. He seemed excited when I...

Some of you may have read my other posts explaining how my wife and I got into our Vee relationship so I won't rehash it here. A new problem has emerged for me. I have reason to question the motives of Navy in our relationship. I don't want to totally waste your time telling the whole story...

Well.... a few days have gone by since I last posted in this thread. My feelings for Navy have simmered down...so I've very glad I didn't act on anything impulsively. I do believe at this point that I had (and still do to some degree) a boat load of emotions just boiling around in my brain...

I wish I could disagree with you...but I'm sure you are right. I don't have ANY experience in this area. I like to be very playful and experiment sexually...but I've only done things with one partner at a time. I haven't approached either party with "real" discussions of a threesome. I am...

Thank you so much for the kind words!!!! It's been an amazing roller coaster ride of emotions that last couple of weeks. Blessed be!

Magdlyn... thank you so much. I will check out the books. I'm trying hard to slow my brain down and think with the correct head. I haven't said anything to Navy about these new feelings I have for him. I want to make sure they are real first (and even more important see if I can figure out...

I just wanted to share something. Today at work my wife (yes...I work with my wife and Navy) was really stressed. She felt like Navy wasn't giving her much attention and I felt bad for her. I asked her if she wanted me to approach him about taking her to dinner and she was excited about that...

You guys are absolutely right. I appreciate you guys keeping me a little grounded while my mind is trying to keep me in the clouds a bit. I can't stress how crazy the last couple of weeks have been. What a crazy roller coaster ride!!! Each day that goes by things are getting more and more...

Well...that's a great question!! One of the major things I've been doing is letting myself be me around everyone. I've always been a little reserved, afraid to look dumb, so I'd have fun but not to the level I'd like. So... I've started to dance when I want to dance, sing when I want to sing...

You know what's funny... it lifted this huge weight off of me. I wish I had been honest a bit sooner. Even some of the butterflies I had every time I think of them together has dissipated. It's funny to me and it literally just clicked in my brain. I have been talking in another thread how...

To be honest...I've been through some therapy to work on my insecurities and I've learned to cope with them to a degree. The affair puts a wrench in it but to be honest I don't want to go to another therapist. When I found out my wife kissed Navy (she told me about the kiss before the affair...

You are probably right. I don't know. I'm so confused right now. I've never had these kinds of emotions flood through me like this. I've never had these thoughts. Once minute I'm scared shitless then the next ready to have a threesome!! I'm sure I sound crazy. I've just never felt like...

Being alone with him isn't an issue...we often hang out alone just as friends. I'm having a hard time figuring out if my feelings for Navy are genuine or just emotions running high. If they are genuine and he is not into it then what? Especially if I say something to him. What if Navy is into...