Recent content by jeffnmeg

wow, i think with my memory i would screw something up! thats a very complex month you are working with but it seems to work well. I hope to one day have our GF move in with us and i guess since its considered "unicorn hunting" we would live happily ever after lol. with or without finding the...

well thats alot to chew on but its all very good advice. i just feel like if we look for someone who is already in a relationship then we are getting that person to cheat. like if they really like us but are already with someone but decide to be with us also i feel like we are coming between her...

so we now have a profile on okcupid together but no ones even replied to any of our messages so ive talked to jeff about me making my own profile and doing what some of you have suggested (me meetting women on my own and they seeing if we can work it into a 3 way relationship) but i almost feel...

no we dont have a profile on that site but i think we will make one. thanks for the info. lol im not looking for someone seperate from him although im ok with him finding someone just for himself. (i know its an odd situation but its how i like it) and he has had a few girlfriends in the past...

Well, that's the weird part, too. It turns out that they aren't interested in either of us. This is the scenario-- we're at the bar, having a few drinks, when a woman seems to be into both of us, and she starts kissing me a little, and the next day we set up a date. Just before the date, or on...

Both are true. They are interested in both of us at first, but either when we try to set a date, or on the date, they then make it clear they are either straight (which means they don't want a threesome) or only interested in me (the woman).

haha That's funny. But no, he's not okay with another man, and I don't want another guy, either. I want my man and a woman.

Well, I actually thought that might be it, but I've paid close attention to him, and over the past year, he has relaxed and is very cool and calm when we meet new women. I have learned that bars seem to be a bad place to meet women, because ALL women in this area seem to be bi and interested in...

Ohh lol. I'm okay with him having a girlfriend separately from me, but he's not ok with me having one separate from him. He had to be talked into the idea of him having another girlfriend. He felt it would be cheating, but now he's okay with it.

I know what it is. Have I done it? No. lol

Yes, it has to be a girl. My hubby is a straight man and I'm a bisexual woman, so it only makes sense to have a woman join us. Also, it isn't just about the sex to us, but I do see your point. I guess I've been putting the sex part of it upfront a bit more because I don't want to make good...

We are meeting them on a dating site, at our local bar and through friends. Both of us are making contact with them.

Well, we look for women who say they are interested in couples, and share some things in common with us, but once we make contact, they seem to change their minds about being with both of us, and just want to be with me. I don't know how to screen out anyone. Our profiles on dating sites clearly...

Hey, My name's Megan. I've been with my partner Jeff for a few years now. I have discussed the idea of a threesome relationship with him, and I really want to give it a shot, but every time we meet a girl, it seems she's interested in both of us at first, until we try to set a date with her...

hey. I totally agree that it can be ackward meeting people at first but clearly you and i are alot alike. we are both quite open minded and like to just lay out the information and see if anyone takes. I hope you dont mind me adding you as a friend. We are also on plenty of fish so if you want...