Recent content by JenW88

That relationship is 💯 not healthy. It's all drama which is what he seems to be into. He's always been about shaking things up while we've been together. I like the idea of setting a date in my head. Thank you for that and all of your help.

I appreciate the frank opinions so much. We have been communicating a lot but I don't know how much will really change. I think counseling would help and I will look into it for me whether or not he chooses to go. My self confidence is so shaken right now.

And I'm already in the mindset of how stupid I am. I hate this so much.

We were together for a little over 2 years before we got married. It's an ex-girlfriend; they broke up something like 10 years ago. Sometimes I wonder if he has many emotions, to be honest.

Yes he has proven untrustworthy. I think he is too comfortable in stringing me along in the relationship. And like others are saying, why would he want to end things with me when he is getting everything he wants and some on the side.

You're right. You're right. The selfish actions are getting to me and I just never really thought he was this selfish before all of this happened.

You're right. I need to take a step back from this.

That sounds like a good solution. I thought I trusted his motives and then he lied. I feel pretty stupid.

I didn't call her. I had texted her before everything with them started.

You're right and I told him I considered it cheating. I guess I'm here for some clarity about how open relationships work. I've not known anybody in one.

Thanks, Albert. That was my thought too. I've worried and expressed my thoughts to him about developing feelings, especially with someone he's already been close with.

It's the same person. Her husband doesn't know. She doesn't believe that I know either. My husband has said if she did know she would probably put a stop to their dalliances.

I think our relationship is worth fighting for, so for the time being I want to try to get over it, or at least see if I'm able to. We're both new with this situation. I agreed to it being half open, though I did explain why I don't think it's fair. He understands, but for some reason is still...

Recently my husband and I discussed opening up our marriage, on his side only. We've been talking about it for a month or so now. We've been discussing boundaries, expectations, etc. He knows how unfair it is that he's asking for his side to be open while mine remains closed. He wants to include...