Recent content by JessieNY

Stitch...thank you for your story. I am sorry it caused you pain that is never good. It is very hepful to me to read your story so that I understand the other side to what my husband is looking for. I would never want to hurt anyone the way you have been hurt. Best wishes to you and happy...

Hi Bella. Just thinking of you! Hope all is well with you and yours...Happy Friday!

Stitch, I guess my problem with it is that he is allowed to open up to another relationship, as long as it is a girl, but I am not allowed to involve another man if I wanted to... which I do not-- but it would be nice to know that it isn't just one-sided with my husband. Also, our...

For me, I have insecurities about opening up my marriage, because I feel that our marriage has a lot of issues in it that need to be worked on first. And I am insecure about him possibly trading me up, if that sounds logical? I want to be able to be open-minded and poly, because I know that it...

I would be allowed yes to see other women. Ultimately he would like just one woman that we can both agree on and love together and act as unit. Though, it sounds selfish...I don't want to be ther 3rd wheel or vice versa.

I am sort of in your wife's shoes. My husband wants to open the relationship to add another woman. It is hard for me, due to my insecurities. I am trying to work through them to be a more loving caring person who is able to share not only her husband, but herself. Let me know how things go. It...

I wonder if any of you have a relationship with you and 2 others where all is equal and your are a family unit all together living together and taking care of eachother together. How does that work? I also wonder how another woman would feel entering into an exsisting relationship that has...

I appreciate your input Mono sometimes i feel so alone even in my marriage that i really need to express my concerns here because at times it feels like it is falling on deaf ears. I have no problem sharing but what if i wanted more? It is so hard for me to decide how to respond at times to...

This is what I needed to hear. Though, who brought the other woman into the relationship?

Well, my husband is highly against me bringing in another man. Which I am okay with but on the other hand - that isn't really fair if he wants to bring in another woman for us to "share" but then the saying is 2 company's 3's a crowd pops into my mind. So it is so complex when dealing with this...

Hi Bella - i know exactly what you mean. I am here if you want to chat maybe we can bounce ideas off eachother and what not! :-)

In our relationship now it is myself and my husband. We are looking to add a 3rd for both of us to be with her and a whole unit...not just me with her or him with her. My husband wants for it to be equal for the both of us women involved. We haven't found anyone per se though we have had...

welcome I am new here as well.

Hello all! I just stumbled upon this website and am happy I did. I am married to a wonderful man who happens to believe in polyamory as do I but I am finding it hard at times to get over the jealousy and insecurities that I have. We have had one relationship -not really serious 10 years ago...