Recent content by jewels6675

Again I'm sorry for that...I will not ask any other questions. Again...thank you to those that did provide advice in your responses...I did appreciate that.

Again I'm completely new to all of this...and I'll be the first to admit I have no clue how to ask the proper questions in order for others to give advice...if I worded it incorrectly I'm sorry for that...

I didn't expect anyone to say "yeah, go get your man girl" but what I did think I would get was advice on how to become poly or how to know if poly can be right for you...but again...not to be critized. And I did get some good advice from some and do appreciate it....but as I've said before...

I couldn't agree more that we shouldn't settle for less then what it is we want...and I have never nor wil I ever settle. I have been single for almost 4 years...and I am picky and would rather be alone verses settleing just to have someone. In a way I guess I was in a poly relationship before...

Yes a month ago that was what I was thinking, but last week he asked me to move in with him and I have been giving it alot of thought. I was asking for advice from the people on this board as I am much less experienced in the whole matter. I guess I didn't expect to be critized but to have...

Here's my story... I've been dating a man, who has a live-in girlfriend who is more than half his age for the last four months and feel as though I am in love with him. He explained poly to me when we first met, and I have since been doing a lot of research on the topic and have read numerous...

You didn't offend me and I do appreciate the advice that you and everyone else has given. This is a new situation I'm finding myself in and I'll take all the advice I can get. I like to think with age has come some wisdom to know not to rush into things, but sometimes our emotions get the best...

First off you're right...I have no intentions of living with him. Should I end up moving...I will be living by myself with my dog and cat!!! Secondly I personally feel as we get older we tend to know quicker as to what it is we want. I'm not a young 20 something person who is still trying to...

Well not tomorrow!!! If I do end up moving it wouldn't be until I am done with school...so that wouldn't be until this summer. But I have been considering it yes. He would be part of the reason for the move yes, but another reason (and a big one) is that I live in a very small area in Iowa and...

Thank you all for your thoughtfull responses....I greatly appreciate them. Would it made a difference in my scenerio at all if I told you all that at the present time I live almost 390 miles away from him? I have however, been seriously considering moving to be closer to him and so that I...

Here's my situation. I met someone about two months ago and am falling very quickly for him. He is in a relationship now and wants poly relationships (he actually told me about the term and how it works) but I'm not sure I can honestly be a secondary...I think I would want to be a primary with...

I am very very new to the whole poly concept and I am curious if someone can have more then one primary.