Recent content by JHolt

Thank you for your responses so far. I have joined a poly meetup group where I live and have continued reading. I appreciate everyone's understanding. Not just "going with the flow" is going to be new for me as I'm quite laid back and have been comfortable for 12 years. I have realized that I...

I'm not sure if I'm intended to legit answer these but I'm going to to see if it helps me talk things through. Is wife you main support person? Why's she the main voice here? Right now my wife is my only support person. I have started to work on talking with people within the poly community...

Thank you for the reply. I have asked my wife if she would consider going back to monogamy of we could work on some issues but she says she is happy with this and not interested in "going backwards". I fear for what may happen if I cannot wrap my head around this. Part of me says take the leap...

Hello, My wife and I recently opened our marriage. I found an attraction to another man and was starting to have, what my wife called, an emotional affair with him. The conversations started out very sexual but transformed over time and u truly care for him. My wife felt it would be best to...