Recent content by JJ87

"But you are having a sexual relationship with him? So he IS available to still cheat on his wife with you and you are helping him do it." Yes, we are having sex with him, but I am not having sex alone with him. We meet as a 3some. "I'm not really sure what you mean by "this lifestyle" -...

Yes, I totally agree. Cheating is nasty. I've been there with my husband and it wasn't pretty. When I said that she can't ruin us, I meant us as in my husband and I. Because I was there, I do have compassion for his wife. I seriously do not want anyone to get hurt. And even though I know there...

Hi Dagferi, can I ask you something? Where are the kids when you are at M's house? I'm just curious. My kids are older, with the youngest being 18 and still at home. He has mild autism so he will be at home for awhile. With that being said, I don't know how to broach the subject of momma having...

When you said, "enjoy it while you can." that is exactly how I feel. I am going to enjoy all of this while I can. MM knows of the type of relationship I want, but I think that scares him a bit. And frankly, since he has the type of marriage just like you described, where they are the perfect...

I couldn't agree with you more, that's why I said that MM isn't available to live this kind of lifestyle. We were very leery of even meeting with him, knowing that he is essentially cheating on his wife. When we did relent to meeting with him, it was with the pretense of, 'who better to be with...

LOL Thank you! Good luck on your journey!

It can never lead to a serious relationship, and we both know it. Yes, we may get hurt but I am of the mind that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved before. Or, a less sappy version is that I don't want to live a life full of 'what-if's.' She can't "ruin" us. She could...

She does not know.

Hi. Thanks for the welcome. Unfortunately, his wife does not know about this. I wish she did, but for other reasons, he cannot tell her. His wife has issues with her own sexuality and rarely talks nicely to him or even touches him so he went to seek that need elsewhere. We started out as...

I thought I would add more details to my intro. My husband and I have been married for 25 years. We have known each other since we were teenagers and have been together ever since. We married young and had kids young and now we are ready to experience some new things. We're not ready for...

Hi. I am extremely new at this, so take my advice for what it's worth (not much LOL); it sounds as if your husband is experiencing that new relationship energy that I keep reading about. I think I would just let it ride, knowing that this is what it could be and try to get wrapped up in his...

My name is JJ, and I am here because we are new to this lifestyle. So new that we, my husband and I, are so confused. We started out as swingers and have had a lot of fun with it. But not even a year into swinging, we had a situation thrown at us that made us stop and think about what we wanted...