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    On being disabled, sexuality, and becoming poly.

    Hi there! Just wanted to say thank you for your wonderful blog, it has been refreshing and interesting to read this evening. I am sitting at home while husband is out with his GF and well, I guess feeling a little sorry for myself haha I too am having troubles meeting someone to share myself...
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    I don't like my metamour :(

    Hmm... Okay. If I were Anne, I might see some red flags in your thoughts and behavior toward Bob and your relationship. It sounds like you have your mind made up about how it all should go and how your future looks with this man, but you resent the hell out of his wife. Not good! In the...
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    Hello from California

    Hi there! Just curious about your name... do you brew beer??? :-)
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    Need some guidance - sleeping arrangements

    Yeah, I agree with Cheryl. Something needs to change. Otherwise, things would be going along just fine with no hard feelings, boundaries crossed, etc. This doesn't sound like a healthy place for anyone to be in. I personally would not want to be in any of the three positions there, but I like to...
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    Hello, from San Luis Obispo County, CA!

    Hello to you both, I live in SLO county as well :-)
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    What an interesting journey...

    Nice :) Your post made me smile. I have tried OKC myself but with no real luck. I know these things take time, but I also live in a small rural community so it seems that I have 'met' the available men in my area and not compatible. Not totally giving up but taking a break, lets just say...
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    Struggling with time and honesty...

    I have to agree with Jade, based on a very messy and ugly quad relationship my husband and I were in. If the other couple does not seem to have a good solid marriage, I would definitely back off and see if they can work on their problems and issues. If all care about each other, and understand...
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    Hello from Cali

    And even more hugs from here :) I sent you a PM, sounds like we live close to each other.
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    Reflections of a Liar

    Oh boy, I feel for you Veganchick and I also feel for your husband. Too many times have misunderstandings or miscommunications or insecurities have gotten my husband and I into huge fights, where we thought too that it is time to throw in the towel and call it a day. He and I are so compatible...
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    Polyamory perspective on internet porn?

    I agree. My hubby likes to look at stuff on the internet. Personally, I am more turned on by written material. But when you come right down to it, it's basically the same thing.
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    one Quaker's view of Polyamory

    Thanks True river, I found your post to be very interesting, not having any Quaker exposure or knowledge :) I like to read and learn about new things, beliefs and ideas
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    Love Language Profile

    Well I scored really high (10) on physical touch and (9) on quality time. Actually makes sense to me :) Will be fun to have hubby take it tonight and see... I think he will actually score high on those two as well, but will be fun to see regardless
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Doing really good today, but wishing I were more outspoken or more brave (??) I went to my dermatologists office this morning, second time I have seen him, and he is really handsome, I am very attracted to him. And I swear he is flirting with me, but so subtly its hard to be sure :p He is...
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    Everyday Commitments To Loving Kindness

    Sounds like some really great books that he writes. I wonder if they are down-loadable to Kindle? Will have to check it out. When hubby bought that thing I swore I would not be able to adapt to it, I am such a 'gotta hold the actual book in my hand' person... but I have to say, it's pretty...
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    Turnabout

    My hubby used to do this too, he felt like he didn't know how to make another woman feel good without making her feel like the princess of the earth :rolleyes: Then he would wonder why his g/f's would get all crazy jealous and want him to be their only one. He came to realize the destruction...
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