Recent content by joedirte

forget the friends then.. is switching/trading nights the norm ?

Next week, my wife Bella and I might take a trip with her boyfriend Cooper. We are not swingers, so we won't be sharing a room. It's a quick 2-3 day trip, but we might have other friends coming with us. We are poly but we haven't told anyone. So in our large group of friends, just the three of...

I need advice and help. My wife Bella and I are new to poly. She started dating a male friend of ours, Cooper. We both agreed beforehand. This was almost a month ago and since day one it's been mostly about him or them. At first, Cooper was worried about me and my feelings. I explained to him I...

We/she tried before we got married a couple years ago. That's when we first heard about poly. Bella was dating two guys. (I was one.) She wanted to be open with both of us. I agreed. He didn't (maybe b/c he hated me). Years passed. We got this mutual friend, and that's how this started. She...

Everything is fine with us. I am worried about the third. It`s hard to tell someone it might have been a mistake bringing them in.

My wife Bella and I are kind of new to the poly life. We have a great friend we've hung out with 1-3 times a week, Cooper. We've traveled with him once in a while for the last 2 years. Bella has always liked him, but has now started to have feelings for him and told him. Cooper also likes her...