Recent content by joeyandalli

Based on my internet research and self-diagnosis, it probably is. Nope, but there's nothing I can do but tackle it on my own. It's financial, insurance, and other. Some is a deeply ingrained belief that no will or can help. Gotta do everything yourself. Generational trauma, I expect. Then, and...

Thank you for all of the resources. I have them all opened in new tabs for tomorrow's reading, BUT FYI, your "Opening Up" archive.org link says they don't have the info anymore. But I'll try to find it elsewhere. I think I addressed at least most of what you said in your post before I even read...

Thank you for this. I wasn't sure if I'd get hate for posting about mental health outside of an assigned category for it. I'm starting to wonder if I'm broken or on the spectrum. The depression started in 2020, because we lost so much and our life changed in ways that we never wanted. And I...

I promise I'm not a troll. Just rusty at peopleing. The depression started after 2020/Covid, but was made even worse over the last 2 years by my medical issues and then getting fired. We chose to move into the camper in 2018 to be able to travel as a family for his job. He was furloughed in...

A little more back story... The social anxiety is honestly on both of our parts. He's more socially anxious in large crowds. It's more socially awkward trying to meet new people. We've been severely hurt in the past and I have developed an intense fear of rejection. Even having these...

Magdlyn, you make a ton of excellent points. I know it's confusing and hard for me to explain. Please forgive me in advance. I might ramble and my thoughts are all over the place. Hubby is NOT the hard ass. He's extremely caring, loving, kind, loyal, and can be compassionate to a fault. Give...

Wow, ok, there's a lot to unpack. Thank you guys for all of the responses. I'm going to try one big reply here. I can't see how this would play out with our families. We've always been the black sheep. We've cut our families out several times in the past because they didn't like that we live...

Hi Magdyln! I haven't had a chance to read the article yet, but it is one of the tabs I have open for future reading. Thanks! Also, thank you for pointing a bunch of stuff out for me. I said in another post that the language has changed a lot and I'm trying to rewire myself for it and learn...

Thanks Evie! We are new to this site. We were on other sites in the past, but we can't remember what they were. We dropped out of the community in general for several years and are basically starting over.

I'm in TN too.

Will do. Thanks.

Hi all! I'm Allison ( or Alli) and hubby is Joey. We are starting to get back into the community. We've been looking for a thruple/triad relationship for many years, but gave up the search for quite a while. We are new to this site, though. We will probably both be on this profile, but it will...