Recent content by john10

poly buddhists I am a former Buddhist clergy in a Zen lineage. I'm not living a poly lifestyle right now, but I'm thinking about it. On of the reasons I started thinking about it was discovering that a fellow clergy member I worked with for a few years was a married poly lady. I found this out...

making progress I think I am getting an idea of how to move forward now so I don't feel like I'm cheating or bottled up. I'm also asking myself about other times in my life when I was strongly attracted to more than one person and how I would have liked those situations to have developed...

Thanks Thanks everyone! Yes, I forgot to mention the woman on OKCupid was in a declared polyamorous relationship. Seems like some form of communication somewhere on my part is in order. I'll mull this over some more. I really appreciate getting to interact with you all here! .

A little more I guess I feel bottled up because I think I should share my feelings about F, which are long-standing, with K but don't trust her not to take then personally. I feel like I am cheating. As far as F goes, long ago she stated that her husband thought of me as her boyfriend. I was...

Thanks! Thanks, Galagirl!

I have been living with a wonderful woman, K, for about a year and a half. I want to keep my relationship and living arrangements. I have and so recently admitted to myself that I am erotically attached in my own heart with a woman I have corresponded with for 17 years and never met, call her...