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    Married and in Guelph, Ontario, Canada -- Seeking Opinions and Guidance

    Great responses from everyone, much appreciated. So on Wednesday, wife came back to the table and suggested maybe "we" weren't ready for that kind of relationship. Definitely true that we are not on the same page, so this is a good idea. We explicitly agreed that for the time being we are...
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    Married and in Guelph, Ontario, Canada -- Seeking Opinions and Guidance

    Yes this is the case. It was a long time ago, and I regret the way it went down, but she wouldn't break up with me. I broke up with her and she'd just cry non-stop and threaten to hurt herself. I would handle it differently now, but instead I just agreed to stay with her, because we were...
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    Married and in Guelph, Ontario, Canada -- Seeking Opinions and Guidance

    No bullshit from you eh Galagirl? Incredible. World needs more people like you. I've done the it's this or that, and she's agreed we are in monogamous. But that little bit of me knows to what extent she'd lie about it, and that's brutal. This is pretty fresh, and to be honest I'm feeling so...
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    Married and in Guelph, Ontario, Canada -- Seeking Opinions and Guidance

    I revisited the first reply, and I thought I should answer those questions. 1) if your wife is looking mainly for a sexual relationship, but "nothing physical" has occurred despite strong temptations, That is what she has said. She says she just wants one time. I don't believe it's going to...
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    Married and in Guelph, Ontario, Canada -- Seeking Opinions and Guidance

    You are all wonderful people. I respect the answers here. I admit I bought into the 30s thing, with no actual scientific proof to prove it. My bad. The rest I take as pretty legitimate though. My point is I accept all of it. It's cool. It's good to be alive. The object thing is an...
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    Married and in Guelph, Ontario, Canada -- Seeking Opinions and Guidance

    Hello friends, My name is J. I am happily married to B, will be celebrating 5 years married in July, and have a pretty nifty little boy named G (I wanted to name him RoboCop, but my wife said it'd be a problem at the border...well played wife). I wrote a full version of my story, but I got...
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