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    Diffuse a ticking time bomb - or not?

    Thank you for ponting that out. I should have been more careful in chosing my words, as my discussion with my wife was much more nuanced than my summary might suggest.
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    Diffuse a ticking time bomb - or not?

    Thank you all for your kind words, (clearly voiced) opinions and advice. You people are really, really helping me. Thanks. Yesterday, I have talked to my wife about keeping his wife in the dark being cruel and at the same time degrading the relationship between my wife and her bf to an...
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    Diffuse a ticking time bomb - or not?

    I am a mono guy (or at least I used to be, not so sure right now). Around Christmas, my wife has come out to me as poly and told me she wanted to have romantic/intimate relationship with another man. During the last couple of months we have talked a lot about reshaping our relationship. We have...
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