Recent content by JustAGirl

Good morning, fine folks! I hope your Saturday morning (or whatever day you read this on) is treating you well. This thread regarding re-opening a mono relationship back to poly status after having set a solid footing, inspired me to write this post. Personally, I'd love to get into some kind...

Wow, this is great stuff! It's kind of like these are things I already know and understand, but somehow I got a little lost along the way - confused. My picture of things got muddled. It'll be nice to read this forum and see the suggestions and stories people offer regarding their successful...

Thank you for the varied perspectives! This is great. :) I'm a little leery about online dating sites, but can definitely see their pre-screening value. Maybe after this summer I'll sign up on OKCupid, since I hear it mentioned regularly in poly circles these days. This summer I'm going to do...

Excellent information! Thank you so much. It's given me some things to think about in my interactions. :) :)

I'm shocked and surprised. Maybe there's a different word you guys are using for this concept, but I thought a Poly site would be rife with conversations about it. What's Triangulation? Simply put, bringing someone else into a disagreement that one should be handling themselves. Here's a...

Isn't it great to find something you resonate with, after all of these years of this weird dissonance that nobody could really explain to you?

This is a question that applies whether or not a person is Polyamorous or Monoamorous or whatever else configuration there might be: What's the best techniques you've used to discover whether the person you're beginning to date/take an interest in dating is a Drama King/Queen? What is your...

Kuma, You do sound like you're in a difficult place right now. I can feel how heavy your heart is while I read some of your words. I'm not going to address the content of what you're saying, but I'm going to ask you to look at the overall emotion that's there. It's all pretty negative...

Hello all! Great to be a part of your community. I've done some reading and am pleased at the well thought-out answers (although white space needs to make friends with SOME people ;) ) and look forward to getting solid input from you all. I especially look forward to having my ass kicked...

Welcome to the site! There seems to be a lot to read in the history, I'm making my way through some searches myself!

Hello! I'm new to the site but not new to Poly. I don't have years of hands on experience but I have many years of pontificating and reading and debating about it ;) Currently I am "Poly Single". Meaning, while I am not dating anyone at the moment, I still identify as Polyamorous. I was in a...