Recent content by justkeepswimming

He says he's not getting any benefits out of it, it's just causing stress, etc. He's gotten to the point of being really unreasonable about it, but I also feel like I helped cause this situation. I understand he's unhappy, I just don't know what to do about it.

He says neither, but I just don't know. I've worked so hard to keep NRE from being a big problem, and I'm pretty much past that stage, anyway. He was used to having me all to himself for a long time, as I was not working the last few years, and I'm sure that's part of it, but I need to get out...

I need advice, and to vent. I'm new to being poly. My partner and I went into it with a lot of undeserved hubris, thinking that after 8 years together nothing could possibly go wrong. Forshadowing, right? I fell hard and fast for 2 new people, while he has had almost no luck. I wasn't supposed...